Everybody have some feelings for others. This might include love,anger,care.affection and anger too. Unexpressed feelings always goes as a waste. When you are not speaking in the needed situation the unexpressed words loses its respect. Lets take one friendship as an example. In friendship love and affection plays a vital role. Sometimes misunderstandings might happen between them. If any of them is not expressing what they feel at that moment the relation might break. Even in a family if we take the relation between a father and a son,the love and affection is easily understood by his children. But when the father is angry because of his son’s particular behavior, he can express it to his son that it was wrong and he didn’t like it. The son can explain the situation to him. There comes the understanding.
When we are hurt we should tell the person that “i am hurt”..”these words hurted me. when we are happy we smile. when we are sad we cry. Try to express your anger and hurt in a calmer and stern way as the words should explain the hurt. Sometimes our silence will also express our hurt . In certain situations we need to just walk away because words might cause bigger damage to the relationships. But keeping silence does not work all the time. We need to speak where we have to. Later sitting alone and thinking that “we should have done this or should have told this " is not right. Sometimes we might hurt our loved ones with harsh words. Later we would have felt bad for that. Simply saying, if you feel bad for how you behaved say the magic word “sorry” .
How many of us do say “Thank you” to an auto man,shopkeeper,the servant who helped you when you were ill or to the bus driver who made your journey safe or the postman who gave you your appointment letter. How many of us consider them to say that small word which has a bigger value. Just try saying it to them you can see a smile at their face which will make you happy.
Without knowing the actual truth we would have hurted our own child thinking that it had done something wrong’ Please go and apologize to your child,no matter how old is he/she. Never take anyone for granted. It can be your parents,siblings,children,friends or your loved ones. When the feelings are not expressed in the right time to a right person all that we can cherish is the memories and not the relationship.
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