Ok i’m confused as hell i guess i should not be but none the less i am…. If you have four children and get a divorce? how can you not have any contact with the ex whom has custody of the children and think that its ok? How can a mother not call her children on valentine’s day and just wish them happy valentines day? How can you ignore a 10 year crying his eyes out on a holiday cause he called his mom and she did not answer? I know i’m ”just the step mom’ but i would be devastated if my children called me in tears…. and for me what can i do? i’ve tried to work with bio mom just to bit in the ass by it… i’ve comforted the kids as best as i can…. i reassure the kids as much as i can ….. i work as hard as i can to provide for them…. i do more for the children then she does yet she thinks i’m the bad guy…. I dont understand ….. I could deal with it if i was being an evil person and trying to keep the children from her but she does it herself…. she does not show up … she does not call… she does not care…… and my husband is the abuser and me big bad meane ….. but she does not take any responsibility at all…. i’ve said many times everyone is someones ex for a reason and there is no one that can be completely at fault however she does not take any responsibility why is that? Its so very hard to watch night after night….. I can’t fight it anymore…. we move on if she steps up she steps up…. i’m tired of waiting for her to do whats right!!!!
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